In fact, I was also in a <span class=”g0-inline-suggestion” data-g0-suggetion-diff-id=”modification-25-29″>case</span> where I overly idealized my ex. So, I was the one who was making excuses for them, you know? Instead of accepting reality, I was living in a dream. Are you often having an idea of what you want and then worrying that it will not be as good as you expect? My <span class=”g0-inline-suggestion” data-g0-suggetion-diff-id=”modification-288-294″>bestie</span> and one article on soulmatcher were my great helpers at that time. The thing to remember is that putting someone on a pedestal is a very common trap. I hope things go well for you moving forward, and that you’ll try to fix some of these mindsets, if you know what I mean. I think it’s good to take a little break. For me, it took a few months to learn how to trust someone in a new way, and finally, I had a positive experience. We’ve been together for five years now.