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Machi62
December 6, 2025 at 5:53 pmPost count: 0<span data-sheets-root=”1″>I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I feel like I might have considered him too perfect. I mean, I put him on a pedestal, you know? Understanding this statement is quite a challenge. I remember every meeting, every thing he said, and it seems like everything was perfect even though it wasn’t. Now I don’t know how to distinguish a person’s real qualities from my expectations. Have you ever had your heart broken by expectations? So, how’d you deal?</span>
Linbi45
December 7, 2025 at 1:38 pmPost count: 0hey chek it out
Linbi45
December 7, 2025 at 1:39 pmPost count: 0<span data-sheets-root=”1″>My sibling and her spouse had the same issue. I was always surprised why she didn’t react to it and just changed the topic. At first, it really bothered me and I didn’t say anything. But then I figured that if I did, it would only make things worse between them. Are you confident in him as a partner? Well, if you see him as a stable one, then I’d say you should definitely speak up! I’d really recommend u to read this article about the condescending tone meaning. It should be very helpful for you too, based on what you said. I’ll tell you, it really helped my sister to speak her mind. She was like, “Hey, I’m not really cool with you responding in that way.” This can really change a person’s attitude and help them understand if they value your boundaries.</span>
Linbi45
December 7, 2025 at 1:40 pmPost count: 0In fact, I was also in a case where I overly idealized my ex. So, I was the one who was making excuses for them, you know? Instead of accepting reality, I was living in a dream. Are you often having a idea of what you want and then worrying that it will not be as good as you expect? My bestie and one article on soulmatcher were my great helpers at that time.
Linbi45
December 7, 2025 at 1:49 pmPost count: 0In fact, I was also in a case where I overly idealized my ex. So, I was the one who was making excuses for them, you know? Instead of accepting reality, I was living in a dream. Are you often having a idea of what you want and then worrying that it will not be as good as you expect? My bestie and one article on soulmatcher were my great helpers at that time. The thing to remember is that putting someone on a pedestal is a very common trap.
Linbi45
December 7, 2025 at 2:04 pmPost count: 0In fact, I was also in a <span class=”g0-inline-suggestion” data-g0-suggetion-diff-id=”modification-25-29″>case</span> where I overly idealized my ex. So, I was the one who was making excuses for them, you know? Instead of accepting reality, I was living in a dream. Are you often having an idea of what you want and then worrying that it will not be as good as you expect? My <span class=”g0-inline-suggestion” data-g0-suggetion-diff-id=”modification-288-294″>bestie</span> and one article on soulmatcher were my great helpers at that time. The thing to remember is that putting someone on a pedestal is a very common trap. I hope things go well for you moving forward, and that you’ll try to fix some of these mindsets, if you know what I mean. I think it’s good to take a little break. For me, it took a few months to learn how to trust someone in a new way, and finally, I had a positive experience. We’ve been together for five years now.
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